BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR}

As I will always say.... ........ RELATIONSHIP is not your mate, in all way it older than your grandparents. When you found your relationship is crumbling, seek advise from a relationship counsellor instead of Quitting. a)  As a single brother or sister always go in-toto about your partner you are in relationship with.. Find out everything about him/her to avoid mistakes. Many cry today because they failed to do the necessary but carried away by MR LOVE. b)  Most married people failed to know that some little things they over look brings misunderstanding in marriage, Try ...

RELATIONSHIP Is The KEY To MARRIAGE...................... BUT when built on a faulty foundation, things are bound to go wrong in marriage.    No matter how long you have been in that RELATIONSHIP, when you noticed this following things, RUN!!!! Let's break it in two categories...... LADIES AND GUYS °°°°°°°°°°°FOR LADIES °°°°°°°°°° (1.) Any man that can INSULT you, your family..... That relationship is not met for you to be, QUIT (2.) Any man that can raise his hand ✋ and hit you, even when he haven't married you yet can also beat and injured you, when you gets married to him,,,,, QUIT (3.) Any man caught RED HANDED cheating, QUIT,,, Cause he is just trying to let you know that even when he marry you,, he is going to have other girl friends outside your home. (4.) Any man that don't have concern for your FUTURE, QUIT (5.) When You discover your guy visits d...

   I have heard some married people make a statement like: "if I know this is the kind of person you are, I will not have married you". 'If I you known you had this kind of attitude I would not had settled down with you.. While other couples are saying:   "even in the next world to come if I see you I will marry you again" " if there is marriage in heaven when we get there I will marry you again.. Let me pause and ask. ...... " can you know a person completely before you marry him or her?? capital NO . You can never know all about your partner. If you think you know all....     It's just a quarter of the person that you know.. And if you want to know all before settling down, then you have to wait till ETERNITY .. No one knows the heart of a man except God.. Now the difference between the statement of those couples is that ,    The FIRST discovered all this flaws and refused to ADAPT and ACCEPT IT ....... The SECOND couple discov...

1) Never take a woman for granted or neglect her. The moment you do, she’ll start scanning the field and you won’t know it. 2) Do not cheat on her, or cheat her. A woman’s revenge could be emotionally lethal. 3)Do not boss her around, push her to do anything she doesn’t want to do, or force her to give you ANYTHING. 4) Do not expect her to wait on you hand and foot. She will take your foot and put it in your hand. 5) Be appreciative for all she does for you and show her appreciation for being in YOUR life. When you start acting like she should be happy she is in YOUR life, she will go out to prove you otherwise. 6) Never lay a hand on her, unless it is to caress her. 7) Never make her second to anything. This is the biggest mistake any man can do. 8) Don’t ever disrespect her or her family, even if she complains about them. It is OK for her to do it, but never for you. Remember this. 9) Always GIVE more than you take from her to stay a man in her eyes. When ...

    How would you rate your relationship on a scale of 1-10 ❓ If you answered “5” or less, you are in a bad relationship that needs some fixing. 1 . MAKE TIME FOR EACH OTHER Absence is rumored to make the heart GROW fonder, but that doesn’t mean your relationship can thrive without any time devoted to it. Life gets busy, especially if you have kids/school/a job/a second job and OMG, ALL THE THINGS; but your relationship is a priority no matter how full your plate may be. Have a daily, 10- minute mini-date where you snuggle up with a silly YouTube video, take a quick walk, have some ice cream, or whatever you both enjoy. 2 . SWITCH UP DATE_NIGHT    Dinner-and-a-movie is a staple for a REASON ( because it’s fun ), but it can grow stale without the occasional mix-up. For example: You could grab coffee or hot cocoa, go to a park on a breezy day and find yourself with a perfect excuse to cuddle. 3 . TAKE AN ADVENTURE    Do something exciting to...

1 . Sometimes people try to expose what’s wrong with you because they can’t handle everything that’s right about you. 2 . Saying what you really want and mean, will always save you from relationship misunderstandings … 3 . The best place in the world is in the arms of someone who will not only hold you at your best but will pick you up and hug you tight at your weakest. 4 . Relationships are like a Book. It takes years to write but second to burn.....                            TO BE CONTINUED.... Blog BGR : www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com Like BGR : www.facebook.com/buildingagoodrelationship Follow BGR on Twitter : @BGR102 ................. Tom General CEO BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP{ BGR } www.facebook.com/TomGeneralofficialpage POWERED BY : BGR TEAM

1. HE’S GOOD WITH HIS MOM (AND OTHER FEMALE MEMBERS OF HIS FAMILY .) Being respectful to his mother is a huge INDICATOR of how a guy treats other women — after all, she’s the first woman he ever had to act any which way around — and so if he manages to get along well with his family, it speaks well of how he’s been taught to treat any woman who comes after them. He doesn’t have to fawn over them and call them every single day, but sending his niece birthday presents, getting along well with his sister, and being nervous about introducing you to his mom (because he wants her to like you) are always signs that he knows how to care about someone, and further, how to express those emotions. 2. HE DRESSES WELL . If the media has taught us anything, it is that women can overlook a man’s sins if he. can. dress — i.e.: Don Draper, Lord Disick, Patrick Bateman(?) — but on a much less hyperbolic example, it’s always nice wh...

1. SHE'S IS PASSIONATE ABOUT SOMETHING , ANYTHING . When a woman has a passion you can do so many more special things for her. Flowers are great, but if she’s into, I don’t know, exotic fish,you can surprise her with a rare gift . I totally looked that up, by the way. I know nothing about exotic fish. Having a passion gives both of you something to share and learn about with each other. If her hobby is watching Netflix there’s not much you can do other than watch TV with her or get her a 3-month subscription gift card. 2. A SENSE OF HUMOR You don’t have to be a stand-up comic, but there are few things more attractive than a woman that can make you laugh. Plus, being able to watch smart, non-network television comedies together is the best. 3. SHE'S IS DECISIVE There’s a big difference between being pushy and being decisive.    DECISIVE means you can make a decision and stand by it. You know what you want and you’re willing to ...

BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP{BGR}   "Is an NGO setup for the purpose of Elevating and Molding of Relationships".  * "Be careful of the Rumor you here about a lady, it can either be from the man that couldn't have her or the lady that couldn't amount to her". * “No African girl will choose Six packs over six Cars.. So my Dear  stop the gym and work hard”. * “A deaf husband and a blind wife are always a happy couple”. * "A Relationship Handles Carelessly is a RELATIONSHIP you never had passion for."_Tom General  * “The first person you think of in the morning, or last person you think of at night, is either the cause of your happiness or your pain”. * “Be careful who you trust! Salt and Sugar are both white”. * “To Make A Difference In Someone’s Life, You Don’t Have To Be Brilliant, Rich, Beautiful, Or Perfect. You Just Have To Care”. * "Relationship is all about you your commitment and what you have to offer"  _Tom General ...

For Men    Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at times. The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2yrs old girl at times, that's why women behave childish or silly at times. You may have an argument with your wife and the next thing is that you will see her putting her bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say "I am sorry for the argument". That's women for you. Every brother needs to study in the university of women before getting married, read books about them, learn what the Bible says about them and you will hardly have a problem with them. Though there may still be some challenges, because you're both from different background and your imperfections are bound to stand. So, read books about marriage, an ideal home, child upbringing, importance of marriage and the li...

    For a man, trust is very important. He feels respected when his girlfriend/woman trusts in him. This is not only in trusting that he is not being unfaithful to his girlfriend/woman , but also trusting in his abilities and knowledge as a person.    Trusting in him that he is not being unfaithful means that you trust he loves you sincerely and that he will not make poor judgments in terms of how to handle the relationship with you. It means you trust that he will not do anything to hurt you. To show him that you trust him in this aspect,  you can do the following: 1. ALLOW HIM TO ENJOY HIS PERSONAL SPACE AND TIME . YOU do not need to insist to be with him all the time or to watch his every step. If he has his own activities or he wants to go out with his own set of friends, just allow him. This clearly shows to him that you do not doubt that he is lying to you and that he may be with another girl instead. 2. NEVER INVADE HIS PRIVACY BY READING THRO...

  RELATIONSHIP at times can be confusing when you get to a certain stage of your love life, you will begin to wonder if the relationship you’re into really worth it. You will come to think of it that does this GUY REALLY MEAN THIS LOVE ❓ and QUESTION like this will want to help you to know where exactly you’re standing in his life.    When you first got into relationship, issues like this, don’t even come to your mind really but as time goes on, even if it is infatuated kind love it get fade away and seems to be true love can set in. But you need to be sure of your position in his life, you wouldn’t want to waste your life and time with someone who doesn’t have a future with you.   Feeling insecure sometimes is a part of experiencing love, it’s normal and at times all of us feel it now and then. But what matters is what your lover does to reassure you, and make you feel more loved that will build your confident level...

  When it comes to sex with women, many men think its about the size of the penis that satisfy the woman, but it isn't, if your penis is not less than 4 inches and not more than 7 inches, you dont have to worry about the size of your penis.    From a scientific point of view, a woman's vagina will actually shrink or stretch according to your size, and from a sexual point of view, to a woman, 90% of her pleasure is phychological. if you want to give her better sex, then stop worrying about your size and start worrying about your skills as a lover. Its every woman dreams to be with a man that can last and last, and make her climax after climax. it may sound difficult to achieve, but it is very easy if you know the steps to follow. For you to be able to satisfy your woman and give her the sexual satisfaction she deserves you need to be able to last more than a couple of rounds, that means getting your penis up every time you release or you simply release (hav...

  A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.   The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words. What do you think were the four words ❓ The husband just said          ...

"Relationship is a Decision made by two 💗+💗 But when One 💗 Go outside The decision Problem Engulf." _ Tom General/www.facebook.com/TomGeneralofficialpage  “A relationship requires a lot of work and commitment.” — Greta Scacchi "Relationship is all about you, your commitment and what you have to offer " _ Tom General CEO/BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR} “Distance isn’t a big factor in a relationship. Communication is. But most of all, Commitment is the biggest.” — Wilson Kanadi “Love is not a place to come and go as we please, its a house we enter in then commit to never leave.” — Taken from Warren Barfield song, ‘Love is not a fight’ “Love is a commitment to protecting another person’s heart with the same passion you use to guard your own.” — Rob Hill Sr. "A Relationship Handles Carelessly is a RELATIONSHIP you never had passion for. " _ Tom General/www.facebook.com/buildingagoodrelationship “Real love is when you are complet...

BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP { BGR }   Is an NGO setup for the purpose of Elevating and Molding of Relationships. °°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°° In a RELATIONSHIP..... * Have a Motive * Be Zealous * Be contented with yourself.    If this things are put into consideration....... Your relationship will be at Ease. Blog 👉 www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com Like 👉 www.facebook.com/buildingagoodrelationship Powered by : BGR TEAM

Article/BGR Tom General CEO/BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR}    RELATIONSHIP is when you dim it fit that you are capable enough to handle another person's responsibilities alongside with yours..... As a Wise person before you think of going into any relationship, SIT DOWN AND REASON , can I really Handles another person's responsibilities alongside with mine ❓   PEOPLE of nowadays go into a relationship without a purpose but for SEX sake, whereas Relationship is beyond that. Tom General CEO, BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR} as a Mentor and a relationship guidance, had noticed that generation of now needs guidance; cause if you think you can do it all alone by yourself, it a big lie. As a male or a female don't think you are grown and as such you need a boyfriend or a girlfriend, cause maturity is not by body side but your Mindset. The idea that makes you go into a relationship with a guy because he has a Ride, is a very wrong one, that sincerely connote ...

BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR}   Is an NGO setup for the purpose of Elevating and Molding of Relationships. BGR TEAM is an interacting body where you ask questions ❓ and get relevant answers... * Respect ur man.. the fact that you see him naked doesn't make him your mate. * A Relationship with no trust is like cell phone with no network, all you do is play games. * A Relationship is sweet and interesting when you are with the right person. * In a relationship both party should always contribute to it growth except it Will become bore. * Man Respect your woman, Woman respect your man: it is a symbol of love. * A Relationship where one becomes a parasite that benefits only from the host....... There is always a doubt! * A Relationship You can not boldly present your man/woman publicly is going down the pit gradually without your awareness. * Don't hit your woman, no matter the offense she commits, that will prove you are a real man with a matured Mind. ..........

   There were two houses standing next to each other. In one of them resided a very unhappy family. The spouses yelled at each other, they fought and quarreled all the time.    The other was a place of happiness and calm. During one of the fights a wife asked her husband: “Did you ever hear them quarrel or yell over at that house? No! So, go there and see what they do to avoid it!” The husband stood at the window of his neighbors and watched. There they were busy doing their own thing.   The wife was in the kitchen cooking, and the man sat at the table writing. The phone rang, and the man jumped up and headed to the hallway to get it.    On his way he bumped into a vase, it fell and broke. He got down to his knees and started picking up the pieces. The wife ran into the room from the kitchen. She also kneeled down and started helping her husband to pick them up. The man said to his wife: “I am so sorry. I rushed to get the p...