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KNOWING YOUR PARTNER

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   I have heard some married people make a statement like:

"if I know this is the kind of person you are, I will not have
married you".

'If I you known you had this kind of attitude I would not had settled down with you..

While other couples are saying:

  "even in the next world to come if I see you I will marry you again"

" if there is marriage in heaven when we get there I will marry you again..

Let me pause and ask.......

" can you know a person completely before you marry him or her??

capital NO.

You can never know all about your partner. If you think you
know all....
    It's just a quarter of the person that you know..
And if you want to know all before settling down, then you have to wait till ETERNITY
.. No one knows the heart of a man except God..
Now the difference between the statement of those couples is that ,

   The FIRST discovered all this flaws and refused to ADAPT and ACCEPT IT .......
The SECOND couple discovered all the flaws in his or her partner and accepted it..

   One thing you must have
at the back of your mind is that, in every person there is a
little hidden, attitude, character that will likely not manifest now until you
marry, or there are signs but you were so carried away to
notice them while in a relationship....
  Another thing you must take to heart is that as you are dating that person, Or about to Wed, you must learn to..
FALL IN LOVE with
Two persons.

1. Love the person you think
your partner is.
2. Love The person he or she is going to become as a result
of being married to you..

You must understand very well that love in marriage is beyond any engagement or wedding RING.. Ring will fade, or it can be misplaced. But love never fade......
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