It has become a culture that when a visitor come to someone's house, he/she must be entertained to some certain level. This is common to many African counties including Nigeria. In Nigeria, many people tend to cook the most delicious meal for their visitor and also entertain them with some movies.
There are two tribes in Africa in which their tradition is to offer their wives to any visitor that visit them. These tribes are the Namibian tribe whose names are OvaHimba and the Ovazimba tribe. They treat their visitors differently by offering their wives for a night pleasure
When a visitors knock on their door, the man in the house tend to be a good host by performing the Okujepisa and Omukazendu treatment which is the offering of hid wife for a night pleasure. In this situation, the woman doest have a say on this because she must obey her husband.
The guest and the woman have to sleep together in the same room while the husband will sleep in another room. In a case where there is only one room, the husband have to sleep outside for that day. The woman have no say on this because she must be submissive to her husband but she have an option of not sleeping with the guest but they must sleep in the same room together.
This is practice just to spoil the visitors with care and beside this, it is also practiced in form of wife swapping.
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