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THINGS WOMEN WILL ALWAYS FIND ATTRACTIVE IN MEN


1. HEā€™S GOOD WITH HIS MOM (AND OTHER FEMALE
MEMBERS OF HIS FAMILY .)

Being respectful to his mother is a huge INDICATOR of how a guy treats other women ā€” after all, sheā€™s the first woman he ever had to act any
which way around ā€” and so if he manages to get along well with his family, it speaks well of how
heā€™s been taught to treat any woman who comes after them. He doesnā€™t have to fawn over them
and call them every single day, but sending his niece birthday presents, getting along well with
his sister, and being nervous about introducing you to his mom (because he wants her to like
you) are always signs that he knows how to care about someone, and further, how to express
those emotions.

2. HE DRESSES WELL .
If the media has taught us anything, it is that women can overlook a manā€™s sins if he. can.
dress ā€” i.e.: Don Draper, Lord Disick, Patrick
Bateman(?) ā€” but on a much less hyperbolic
example, itā€™s always nice when a guy puts a little
effort into looking like he thought about what heā€™s wearing. (Which is not to say that sweats
donā€™t have their place, because sometimes you just gotta be comfy.) And you donā€™t even have to
look NBA press-conference fly to dress well; clean jeans and t-shirts will always look good.
Whatever your personal style, if it looks like you take pride in that natural extension of yourself,
then weā€™re going to appreciate it.

3. HE HAS HOBBIES .
Whether that is a pick-up game of basketball every week with his friends or he likes to pore
through the second-hand bookstore, heā€™s got to have something to call distinctly his own. A guy
whose whole life is going to work, then to the bar with his buddies, then home is a guy who is
going to only let you work your way into that little world rather than opening up his life (and
himself) to you.

4. HE MAKES PLANS .
Actual plans. Actual, real, letā€™s-do-this-thing-at- this-time-and-place plans. I know it looks like
youā€™re playing it cool to just leave things up to chance and see how the night progresses, but taking the initiative and saying, hey, I want to see you, is a surefire way to get the butterflies jumping around in our stomachs.

5. HE HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR ā€” AND NOT AT THE EXPENSE OF OTHER PEOPLE .
We all say ridiculous things from time to time,
and if a guy can sit there and gamely laugh at whatever inane thing comes out of your mouth,
itā€™s nice (especially when we still ā€” after all these years ā€” seem to be in the throes of some
weird ā€œwomen shouldnā€™t try to be funnyā€ debate.) Plus, if his sense of humor isnā€™t based
on constantly putting other people down, itā€™s nice that he notices the comical bits about life without
tearing down other people in order to put himself on top.

6. HEā€™S NOT AUTOMATICALLY A ā€œYES MAN ā€.
This relates back to his having his own hobbies and making plans, but if he can manage to do
something on his own without his posse coming along for the ride, it speaks really highly of him.
Hearing him say, ā€œNah, man, Iā€™m gonna spend the night with my girlā€ rather than joining the
crowd at the bar is a selfish little happiness on our parts, to be sure, but being able to make up
his own mind about what he wants to do ā€” and then actually doing it ā€” are signs of a person
who just knows who he is, and thatā€™s sexy.

7. HEā€™S THE SAME WAY AROUND HIS FRIENDS AS HE IS AROUND YOU .
This is a great way to know that youā€™re getting
the genuine person ā€“ no fronts, no acts, just them. If heā€™s puffing and preening around you,
his buddies are sure to tell him to knock it off. If he invites you in, however, and welcomes you to
hang with them with zero pretenses, not only have you passed a major barrier, but you can also feel good about the fact that youā€™ve seen
exactly who he is, no smoke or mirrors involved.

8. HE LISTENS .
Iā€™ve had so many guy friends justify why men seem to find listening so difficult ā€” ā€œBecause we
want to do something about it!ā€ ā€œWe want to fix the problem!ā€ ā€œWe want to take action!ā€ But like,
bro. Chill. I know just sitting there and listening feels like the ultimate awkward wtf-am-I- supposed-to-do-with-my-hands hug, but just
have the awkward-fish-arms-hug. Just nod along. Let us get it out. Say ā€œthat sucksā€ every now and
again. Providing us with the solution at every turn just makes us feel like weā€™re even more in
struggle city than we already feel like we are.

9. HE EXPRESSES HIMSELF IN LITTLE WAYS .
Whether he sends you a random email to say
ā€œhiā€ or a YouTube video he thinks you might like,
picks up a bottle of wine to have with dinner just because, or even if you just wake up in the middle of the night only to realize that his hand
found yours in his sleep, seeing those little fleeting bits of affection are always enough to warm even the most unsure heart and assure us
that yeah, he cares.

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