BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR}

RELATIONSHIP Is The KEY To MARRIAGE...................... BUT when built on a faulty foundation, things are bound to go wrong in marriage.    No matter how long you have been in that RELATIONSHIP, when you noticed this following things, RUN!!!! Let's break it in two categories...... LADIES AND GUYS °°°°°°°°°°°FOR LADIES °°°°°°°°°° (1.) Any man that can INSULT you, your family..... That relationship is not met for you to be, QUIT (2.) Any man that can raise his hand ✋ and hit you, even when he haven't married you yet can also beat and injured you, when you gets married to him,,,,, QUIT (3.) Any man caught RED HANDED cheating, QUIT,,, Cause he is just trying to let you know that even when he marry you,, he is going to have other girl friends outside your home. (4.) Any man that don't have concern for your FUTURE, QUIT (5.) When You discover your guy visits different PASTORS AND SEERS , QUIT cause one day the spirit will also caught up with you. (6.) Run 🏃 from

   I have heard some married people make a statement like: "if I know this is the kind of person you are, I will not have married you". 'If I you known you had this kind of attitude I would not had settled down with you.. While other couples are saying:   "even in the next world to come if I see you I will marry you again" " if there is marriage in heaven when we get there I will marry you again.. Let me pause and ask. ...... " can you know a person completely before you marry him or her?? capital NO . You can never know all about your partner. If you think you know all....     It's just a quarter of the person that you know.. And if you want to know all before settling down, then you have to wait till ETERNITY .. No one knows the heart of a man except God.. Now the difference between the statement of those couples is that ,    The FIRST discovered all this flaws and refused to ADAPT and ACCEPT IT ....... The SECOND couple discove

1) Never take a woman for granted or neglect her. The moment you do, she’ll start scanning the field and you won’t know it. 2) Do not cheat on her, or cheat her. A woman’s revenge could be emotionally lethal. 3)Do not boss her around, push her to do anything she doesn’t want to do, or force her to give you ANYTHING. 4) Do not expect her to wait on you hand and foot. She will take your foot and put it in your hand. 5) Be appreciative for all she does for you and show her appreciation for being in YOUR life. When you start acting like she should be happy she is in YOUR life, she will go out to prove you otherwise. 6) Never lay a hand on her, unless it is to caress her. 7) Never make her second to anything. This is the biggest mistake any man can do. 8) Don’t ever disrespect her or her family, even if she complains about them. It is OK for her to do it, but never for you. Remember this. 9) Always GIVE more than you take from her to stay a man in her eyes. When a woman has to supp

    How would you rate your relationship on a scale of 1-10 ❓ If you answered “5” or less, you are in a bad relationship that needs some fixing. 1 . MAKE TIME FOR EACH OTHER Absence is rumored to make the heart GROW fonder, but that doesn’t mean your relationship can thrive without any time devoted to it. Life gets busy, especially if you have kids/school/a job/a second job and OMG, ALL THE THINGS; but your relationship is a priority no matter how full your plate may be. Have a daily, 10- minute mini-date where you snuggle up with a silly YouTube video, take a quick walk, have some ice cream, or whatever you both enjoy. 2 . SWITCH UP DATE_NIGHT    Dinner-and-a-movie is a staple for a REASON ( because it’s fun ), but it can grow stale without the occasional mix-up. For example: You could grab coffee or hot cocoa, go to a park on a breezy day and find yourself with a perfect excuse to cuddle. 3 . TAKE AN ADVENTURE    Do something exciting together! You could TAKE a cruise, g

1 . Sometimes people try to expose what’s wrong with you because they can’t handle everything that’s right about you. 2 . Saying what you really want and mean, will always save you from relationship misunderstandings … 3 . The best place in the world is in the arms of someone who will not only hold you at your best but will pick you up and hug you tight at your weakest. 4 . Relationships are like a Book. It takes years to write but second to burn.....                            TO BE CONTINUED.... Blog BGR : www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com Like BGR : www.facebook.com/buildingagoodrelationship Follow BGR on Twitter : @BGR102 ................. Tom General CEO BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP{ BGR } www.facebook.com/TomGeneralofficialpage POWERED BY : BGR TEAM

1. HE’S GOOD WITH HIS MOM (AND OTHER FEMALE MEMBERS OF HIS FAMILY .) Being respectful to his mother is a huge INDICATOR of how a guy treats other women — after all, she’s the first woman he ever had to act any which way around — and so if he manages to get along well with his family, it speaks well of how he’s been taught to treat any woman who comes after them. He doesn’t have to fawn over them and call them every single day, but sending his niece birthday presents, getting along well with his sister, and being nervous about introducing you to his mom (because he wants her to like you) are always signs that he knows how to care about someone, and further, how to express those emotions. 2. HE DRESSES WELL . If the media has taught us anything, it is that women can overlook a man’s sins if he. can. dress — i.e.: Don Draper, Lord Disick, Patrick Bateman(?) — but on a much less hyperbolic example, it’s always nice when a guy puts a little effort into looking like he thought

1. SHE'S IS PASSIONATE ABOUT SOMETHING , ANYTHING . When a woman has a passion you can do so many more special things for her. Flowers are great, but if she’s into, I don’t know, exotic fish,you can surprise her with a rare gift . I totally looked that up, by the way. I know nothing about exotic fish. Having a passion gives both of you something to share and learn about with each other. If her hobby is watching Netflix there’s not much you can do other than watch TV with her or get her a 3-month subscription gift card. 2. A SENSE OF HUMOR You don’t have to be a stand-up comic, but there are few things more attractive than a woman that can make you laugh. Plus, being able to watch smart, non-network television comedies together is the best. 3. SHE'S IS DECISIVE There’s a big difference between being pushy and being decisive.    DECISIVE means you can make a decision and stand by it. You know what you want and you’re willing to go for it. Decisive doesn’t mean you

BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP{BGR}   "Is an NGO setup for the purpose of Elevating and Molding of Relationships".  * "Be careful of the Rumor you here about a lady, it can either be from the man that couldn't have her or the lady that couldn't amount to her". * “No African girl will choose Six packs over six Cars.. So my Dear  stop the gym and work hard”. * “A deaf husband and a blind wife are always a happy couple”. * "A Relationship Handles Carelessly is a RELATIONSHIP you never had passion for."_Tom General  * “The first person you think of in the morning, or last person you think of at night, is either the cause of your happiness or your pain”. * “Be careful who you trust! Salt and Sugar are both white”. * “To Make A Difference In Someone’s Life, You Don’t Have To Be Brilliant, Rich, Beautiful, Or Perfect. You Just Have To Care”. * "Relationship is all about you your commitment and what you have to offer"  _Tom General 

For Men    Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at times. The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2yrs old girl at times, that's why women behave childish or silly at times. You may have an argument with your wife and the next thing is that you will see her putting her bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say "I am sorry for the argument". That's women for you. Every brother needs to study in the university of women before getting married, read books about them, learn what the Bible says about them and you will hardly have a problem with them. Though there may still be some challenges, because you're both from different background and your imperfections are bound to stand. So, read books about marriage, an ideal home, child upbringing, importance of marriage and the li

    For a man, trust is very important. He feels respected when his girlfriend/woman trusts in him. This is not only in trusting that he is not being unfaithful to his girlfriend/woman , but also trusting in his abilities and knowledge as a person.    Trusting in him that he is not being unfaithful means that you trust he loves you sincerely and that he will not make poor judgments in terms of how to handle the relationship with you. It means you trust that he will not do anything to hurt you. To show him that you trust him in this aspect,  you can do the following: 1. ALLOW HIM TO ENJOY HIS PERSONAL SPACE AND TIME . YOU do not need to insist to be with him all the time or to watch his every step. If he has his own activities or he wants to go out with his own set of friends, just allow him. This clearly shows to him that you do not doubt that he is lying to you and that he may be with another girl instead. 2. NEVER INVADE HIS PRIVACY BY READING THROUGH HIS TEXT MESSAGES OR EMA

  RELATIONSHIP at times can be confusing when you get to a certain stage of your love life, you will begin to wonder if the relationship you’re into really worth it. You will come to think of it that does this GUY REALLY MEAN THIS LOVE ❓ and QUESTION like this will want to help you to know where exactly you’re standing in his life.    When you first got into relationship, issues like this, don’t even come to your mind really but as time goes on, even if it is infatuated kind love it get fade away and seems to be true love can set in. But you need to be sure of your position in his life, you wouldn’t want to waste your life and time with someone who doesn’t have a future with you.   Feeling insecure sometimes is a part of experiencing love, it’s normal and at times all of us feel it now and then. But what matters is what your lover does to reassure you, and make you feel more loved that will build your confident level toward your relationship.   Take a look at these signs that

  When it comes to sex with women, many men think its about the size of the penis that satisfy the woman, but it isn't, if your penis is not less than 4 inches and not more than 7 inches, you dont have to worry about the size of your penis.    From a scientific point of view, a woman's vagina will actually shrink or stretch according to your size, and from a sexual point of view, to a woman, 90% of her pleasure is phychological. if you want to give her better sex, then stop worrying about your size and start worrying about your skills as a lover. Its every woman dreams to be with a man that can last and last, and make her climax after climax. it may sound difficult to achieve, but it is very easy if you know the steps to follow. For you to be able to satisfy your woman and give her the sexual satisfaction she deserves you need to be able to last more than a couple of rounds, that means getting your penis up every time you release or you simply release (have orga

  A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.   The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words. What do you think were the four words ❓ The husband just said             "I Love You Darling" The husband's totally unexpected reaction is

"Relationship is a Decision made by two 💗+💗 But when One 💗 Go outside The decision Problem Engulf." _ Tom General/www.facebook.com/TomGeneralofficialpage  “A relationship requires a lot of work and commitment.” — Greta Scacchi "Relationship is all about you, your commitment and what you have to offer " _ Tom General CEO/BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR} “Distance isn’t a big factor in a relationship. Communication is. But most of all, Commitment is the biggest.” — Wilson Kanadi “Love is not a place to come and go as we please, its a house we enter in then commit to never leave.” — Taken from Warren Barfield song, ‘Love is not a fight’ “Love is a commitment to protecting another person’s heart with the same passion you use to guard your own.” — Rob Hill Sr. "A Relationship Handles Carelessly is a RELATIONSHIP you never had passion for. " _ Tom General/www.facebook.com/buildingagoodrelationship “Real love is when you are complet

BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP { BGR }   Is an NGO setup for the purpose of Elevating and Molding of Relationships. °°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°° In a RELATIONSHIP..... * Have a Motive * Be Zealous * Be contented with yourself.    If this things are put into consideration....... Your relationship will be at Ease. Blog 👉 www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com Like 👉 www.facebook.com/buildingagoodrelationship Powered by : BGR TEAM

Article/BGR Tom General CEO/BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR}    RELATIONSHIP is when you dim it fit that you are capable enough to handle another person's responsibilities alongside with yours..... As a Wise person before you think of going into any relationship, SIT DOWN AND REASON , can I really Handles another person's responsibilities alongside with mine ❓   PEOPLE of nowadays go into a relationship without a purpose but for SEX sake, whereas Relationship is beyond that. Tom General CEO, BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR} as a Mentor and a relationship guidance, had noticed that generation of now needs guidance; cause if you think you can do it all alone by yourself, it a big lie. As a male or a female don't think you are grown and as such you need a boyfriend or a girlfriend, cause maturity is not by body side but your Mindset. The idea that makes you go into a relationship with a guy because he has a Ride, is a very wrong one, that sincerely connote that you

BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR}   Is an NGO setup for the purpose of Elevating and Molding of Relationships. BGR TEAM is an interacting body where you ask questions ❓ and get relevant answers... * Respect ur man.. the fact that you see him naked doesn't make him your mate. * A Relationship with no trust is like cell phone with no network, all you do is play games. * A Relationship is sweet and interesting when you are with the right person. * In a relationship both party should always contribute to it growth except it Will become bore. * Man Respect your woman, Woman respect your man: it is a symbol of love. * A Relationship where one becomes a parasite that benefits only from the host....... There is always a doubt! * A Relationship You can not boldly present your man/woman publicly is going down the pit gradually without your awareness. * Don't hit your woman, no matter the offense she commits, that will prove you are a real man with a matured Mind. ..........

   There were two houses standing next to each other. In one of them resided a very unhappy family. The spouses yelled at each other, they fought and quarreled all the time.    The other was a place of happiness and calm. During one of the fights a wife asked her husband: “Did you ever hear them quarrel or yell over at that house? No! So, go there and see what they do to avoid it!” The husband stood at the window of his neighbors and watched. There they were busy doing their own thing.   The wife was in the kitchen cooking, and the man sat at the table writing. The phone rang, and the man jumped up and headed to the hallway to get it.    On his way he bumped into a vase, it fell and broke. He got down to his knees and started picking up the pieces. The wife ran into the room from the kitchen. She also kneeled down and started helping her husband to pick them up. The man said to his wife: “I am so sorry. I rushed to get the phone and bumped into the vase. It fell and got broke

1: IMMUNIT Y BOOSTING    People who have sex regularly do enjoy heightened levels of immunity. People who have sex have higher levels of what defends your body against germs, viruses, and other intruders. 2: BOOSTS LIBIDO      Having sex regularly also boosts your sex libido. For men the penis health is maintained by regular erections and the prostate health too maintains its functionalities. For women, having sex ups vaginal lubrication, blood flow, and elasticity, she says, all of which make sex feel better and help you crave more of it. 3: IMPROVED BLADDER CONTROL FOR WOME N    A strong pelvic floor is important for avoiding incontinence, something that will affect about 30% of women at some point in their lives. Good sex is like a workout for your pelvic floor muscles. When you have an orgasm, it causes contractions in those muscles, which strengthens them. 4: BURNS EXTRA CALORIE S      Sex also works in the body just as exercises do. Though it cannot rep

   When You are Been given SEX at ease it means something is WRONG...   Imagine as a guy you meant a Lady yesterday and after much talk today she decided to pay you a visit and before you knew it, you guys had SEX....    To You what a pleasure and a sharp guy you think you are!!!!!!!! Things just left you..... DESTINY HAD JUST BEEN EXCHANGED. SEX is a Spirit, during SEX exchange of destinies takes place without your awareness...... Alot of persons are experiencing different kind of problems today as a result of the SEX they had with a wronged woman or a wronged Man ; "Cause nothing goes for nothing" .   If you must have SEX do it with just a partner don't be a DOG that has multiple partners        ................. TO BE CONTINUED Blog 👉 www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com Like 👉 www.facebook.com/buildingagoodrelationship Email 👉 buildingagoodrelationship@gmail.com Tom General CEO/BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR} Like 👉 www.facebook.com/TomGen

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     When you've had a really bad day, and you feel as if things could not have gotten any worse, you get her call. She wants to whisper sweet nothings to you right then, but you are so badly pissed off, that you shout at her for no fault of hers. She might have shed a tear on the other end but you are way past the point of caring now. You end the call and go about your business, i.e verbally bashing up other people closest to you.    Only when things have cooled down, you spare a thought for her. Regret fills you up, making you want to vomit. Without thinking what you'd say, you dial her number and wait. And hope against hope that things are not damaged beyond repair. She picks it up within three rings, and you hear her sweet voice on the line - "Hello?" You want to pour your heart out to her - tell her how badly you regret scolding her then, and that you never meant any of it. You want to express just how much she means to you and that she should not hold what

  The road to success is not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a loop called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights called Enemies, caution lights called Family.   You will have flat tyres called Breakup. But, if you have a spare wheel  called Determination, an engine called Perseverance, insurance called Faith, a driver called GOD, you will make it to a place called Success.    God bless you!!!  God Bless Your Relationship...!!!!!!🏆🏆🏆🏆 Blog 👉 www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com Like 👉 www.facebook.com/buildingagoodrelationship Tom General CEO/BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP Like 👉 www.facebook.com/TomGeneralofficialpage

      They're the words no woman ever wants to hear. I've learned the most common reason a husband tells his wife he doesn't love her any more is because there's 'another woman'. Discovering that your husband has fallen out of love with you or is 'involved' with someone else is  simply horrible. Your heart races, it feels like a bag of cement is lodged in your stomach and your mind starts working overtime.    Controversial: He had the affair but you need to say sorry says a relationship expert Why is he doing this, you ask? You've been a loyal and supportive wife, after all. He's got a lovely home and children who adore him. What more could he want? Of course you're not perfect - who is? But you're not the one sending inappropriate texts to another woman. You're just trying to hold the family together. If only he'd grow up and start acting his age. Any woman who finds herself in this situation has my sympathy. Though there

MARRIAGE         is like a shoe👟, When you wear oversize be ready to drag it along through out life And be ready to feel the pains.   One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter. DEAR SINGLES ,     When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things: 1.  PHYSICAL APPEARANCE :         Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife. 2.  POSITION:           All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place