If my boyfriend stops replying to my cute texts, is it a sign that
he doesn't love me anymore? If he says he wants more space,
does it mean he wants to break up with me? If my guy has
stopped saying, "I love you," does it mean he doesn't have
feelings for me anymore?
Stop assuming and read this article, which discusses some of
the everyday signs that show that he isn't interested in you or
the relationship any longer.
1) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Demanding Space
in the Relationship
Your boyfriend really shouldn't be asking for more space in your
relationship if there have not been any changes in the way either
of you behave. His demands to be left alone could be because
he doesn't enjoy being with you the same way that he did
before.
Calmly ask your guy why he wants more space. If he says
something specific, deal with it and get it over with. But if he
says something vague and has no clear reasons why he
suddenly wants you to take a step back, his love for you may be
fizzling out.
2) He Starts Comparing You to Other Girls
A guy should never say something to a girl that makes her feel
less beautiful, less talented, or less of a woman than someone
else. The slightest hints of comparisons made between you and
any other girl should be a warning sign.
Comparing your behavior, looks, or any other aspect of
personality with another woman suggests a deep-rooted
resentment driving a sense of frustration. Here are some
examples of how a guy's cruel words may mean that he is
falling out of love with his girl:
Why can't you dress like her?
She carries such a lot of confidence when she speaks,
why can't you do the same?
Maybe you should learn a thing or two about style from
her.
You are such a jealous girlfriend, why can't you be like my
best friend's girl? She is always relaxed and calm.
If your guy does this once, let him know that you will not tolerate
being compared to another girl. Ask him how he would feel if
you compared him with another guy. And if he still continues to
do so, it may be a sign that he doesn't love you the same way
he used to.
3) He Stops Replying to Your Texts or Takes a Long
Time to Reply
Has he stopped replying to your texts? It could be a sign
that he's not that into you.
One of the first signs that your boyfriend is really beginning to
lose his feelings for you is when he stops replying to your texts.
This is the moment when he is out with his friends, he gets a
beep on his phone, and he makes a dirty face when he sees that
it is a text from you.
You will immediately notice this twist in his behavior because he
will suddenly start taking longer than usual to reply to your
texts. In the beginning, he will have all sorts of excuses for
taking such a long time. But after a point, he will simply get
irritated and lose his temper every time you ask him why he
took so long. This is the moment when you must realize that the
love in your relationship has been taken down a notch.
4) Your Boyfriend Starts Spending Most of His Time
with His Friends
Everyday relationship problems, fights, and arguments often
drive a couple apart to the point where they stop hanging out
with each other. But usually this distance is temporary, lasting
only until the silly arguments have been sorted out.
If your boyfriend has cut down on the time he spends with you
and increased the amount of time he hangs out with his buddies,
ask him if something is bothering him. If he is doing it
unknowingly, he will do whatever he can to make you feel that
nothing is wrong.
On the other hand, if he is deliberately avoiding you because he
doesn't feel the same way about you anymore, he will fumble
for a reason. Take this as a sign that his love for you is on the
decline.
5) He Starts Becoming Extremely Selfish in the
Relationship
Does he only care about his work/routine and refuse to
recognize that you need attention as well?
When a guy starts losing interest in his relationship, his behavior
will likely take a very selfish turn. He will become more
inconsiderate and self-centered in his interactions with you.
Here are some of the classic signs you should watch out for.
He starts becoming extremely selfish in bed.
All he cares about is his routine, his studies, his work, and
his friends.
He stops asking you for your opinion on where you both
go out on dates.
He doesn't acknowledge his self-centered behavior even
after you have pointed it out to him.
6) He Gets Irritated When You Start a Mushy
Conversation
Mushy conversations and cute names are a playful part of a
couple's love life. These things slowly taper off as the puppy-
love effect wears off, but they still remain deep-rooted in
everyday behavior.
Your guy's annoyance may be justified if you overdo it by calling
him cute names all day long. But an overall aversion to anything
lovey-dovey can be a sign that he is no longer invested in the
relationship.
7) Your Boyfriend Has Stopped Saying "I Love You"
A guy and a girl usually start saying "I love you" to each other
once they move past the first phase of dating. If your
relationship developed into the "I love you" stage a long time
ago, there is no reason why your boyfriend should suddenly feel
averse to saying these three beautiful words to you. As cheesy
as it sounds, if he stops saying them, it is a strong sign that that
he isn't as into you as he was before.
8) He Doesn't Bother to Comfort You, Even When You
Are Sad
If he doesn't comfort you when you're feeling blue, he's not
reacting as a boyfriend should.
A man who is in love will always recognize when his loved one
is sad or in distress, and will do whatever it takes to bring a
smile back to her face. This is true regardless of how much a
couple fights or argues. No guy can call himself a boyfriend if he
does nothing when he knows that something is bothering his
girl.
Hugging a girl when she looks sad and rubbing her shoulders
when she is down should be a boyfriend's instincts. If your guy
doesn't do any of that and turns a blind eye even when you are
feeling blue, it can be a sign that he doesn't love you with the
same intensity that he did before.
9) Your Boyfriend Digs up Regrettable Incidents from
Your Past
Everyone knows how painful it feels when someone reminds
you of memories that have scarred you emotional and
psychologically. It takes a person many years to forget
someone, let go of bitter memories, and move on from the
regret of doing stupid things.
Your boyfriend has no reason to dig up painful memories from
your past and fling them at you when you have an argument.
This is one boundary that partners must not cross, because it
can be very damaging to someone's confidence.
If your guy has recently started slinging your past regrets at you
with a hurtful intent, his feelings for you may have already
bottomed out.
10) He Doesn't Flirt with You Any More
Flirting speaks volumes about the chemistry a couple shares.
No matter how long you have been in the same relationship,
your boyfriend should typically be flirting with you by:
Giving you compliments when you wear something new
Picking random moments to tell you how beautiful you
are
Staring at you and looking into your eyes when you are
both alone
Make you feel sexy by telling you how attractive you are
Of course, your guy isn't expected to be Prince Charming all the
time. But he should be taking the initiative to start such
romantic conversations every now and then.
11) The Spark of Physical Intimacy Fizzles Out in
Your Relationship
Snuggling and physical contact is normal in a relationship.
If you find yourselves maintaining your distance from one
another, that's a sign something is wrong.
When a guy starts falling out of love, it will reflect in his hugs,
kisses, and cuddles. The chemistry of physical intimacy that you
share with your guy says a lot about your relationship. Ask
yourself these questions if you think that your boyfriend doesn't
love you anymore:
Do you still share those long hugs that you used to when
you started dating him?
Does your boyfriend cuddle you when you are all by
yourselves?
Thinking about these things will immediately give you a fair idea
of whether your boyfriend is still totally into you or has gotten
bored in the relationship. Another sign of a lack of emotional
connect is when your sex life is either non-existent or it has
gotten to the point that it feels mundane.
12) He Gets Angry and Loses His Cool without Any
Reason
People lose their tempers for any number of reasons, including
doing poorly at school, having rough times at work, feeling
bullied, or going through family problems.
If your boyfriend seems to be edgy all the time and loses his
temper at non-issues, try to find out the reason for his anger. If
you can't seem to pin-point any specific causes, his random
flare-ups could simply mean that he is irritated by you and the
relationship.
13) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Getting Annoyed
by Some of Your Habits
Has your boyfriend recently started pointing out little stuff in
your everyday behavior, claiming that you annoy him endlessly?
Ask yourself these questions if he suddenly feels that some of
your habits are driving him crazy.
Did you have these habits before you met him?
Had any of those habits created problems in the
relationship before?
Make a mental note of whether you have had those habits since
the beginning of your relationship. If you did, then why is your
boyfriend suddenly becoming averse to them? Ask the same
question to him. If he doesn't have an answer for you, the real
answer probably lies in his heart, which doesn't beat for you
anymore.
......thanks for your Time...
Visit my Blogspot@
www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com
Email@ buildingagoodrelationship@gmail.com
CEO, Tom General
he doesn't love me anymore? If he says he wants more space,
does it mean he wants to break up with me? If my guy has
stopped saying, "I love you," does it mean he doesn't have
feelings for me anymore?
Stop assuming and read this article, which discusses some of
the everyday signs that show that he isn't interested in you or
the relationship any longer.
1) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Demanding Space
in the Relationship
Your boyfriend really shouldn't be asking for more space in your
relationship if there have not been any changes in the way either
of you behave. His demands to be left alone could be because
he doesn't enjoy being with you the same way that he did
before.
Calmly ask your guy why he wants more space. If he says
something specific, deal with it and get it over with. But if he
says something vague and has no clear reasons why he
suddenly wants you to take a step back, his love for you may be
fizzling out.
2) He Starts Comparing You to Other Girls
A guy should never say something to a girl that makes her feel
less beautiful, less talented, or less of a woman than someone
else. The slightest hints of comparisons made between you and
any other girl should be a warning sign.
Comparing your behavior, looks, or any other aspect of
personality with another woman suggests a deep-rooted
resentment driving a sense of frustration. Here are some
examples of how a guy's cruel words may mean that he is
falling out of love with his girl:
Why can't you dress like her?
She carries such a lot of confidence when she speaks,
why can't you do the same?
Maybe you should learn a thing or two about style from
her.
You are such a jealous girlfriend, why can't you be like my
best friend's girl? She is always relaxed and calm.
If your guy does this once, let him know that you will not tolerate
being compared to another girl. Ask him how he would feel if
you compared him with another guy. And if he still continues to
do so, it may be a sign that he doesn't love you the same way
he used to.
3) He Stops Replying to Your Texts or Takes a Long
Time to Reply
Has he stopped replying to your texts? It could be a sign
that he's not that into you.
One of the first signs that your boyfriend is really beginning to
lose his feelings for you is when he stops replying to your texts.
This is the moment when he is out with his friends, he gets a
beep on his phone, and he makes a dirty face when he sees that
it is a text from you.
You will immediately notice this twist in his behavior because he
will suddenly start taking longer than usual to reply to your
texts. In the beginning, he will have all sorts of excuses for
taking such a long time. But after a point, he will simply get
irritated and lose his temper every time you ask him why he
took so long. This is the moment when you must realize that the
love in your relationship has been taken down a notch.
4) Your Boyfriend Starts Spending Most of His Time
with His Friends
Everyday relationship problems, fights, and arguments often
drive a couple apart to the point where they stop hanging out
with each other. But usually this distance is temporary, lasting
only until the silly arguments have been sorted out.
If your boyfriend has cut down on the time he spends with you
and increased the amount of time he hangs out with his buddies,
ask him if something is bothering him. If he is doing it
unknowingly, he will do whatever he can to make you feel that
nothing is wrong.
On the other hand, if he is deliberately avoiding you because he
doesn't feel the same way about you anymore, he will fumble
for a reason. Take this as a sign that his love for you is on the
decline.
5) He Starts Becoming Extremely Selfish in the
Relationship
Does he only care about his work/routine and refuse to
recognize that you need attention as well?
When a guy starts losing interest in his relationship, his behavior
will likely take a very selfish turn. He will become more
inconsiderate and self-centered in his interactions with you.
Here are some of the classic signs you should watch out for.
He starts becoming extremely selfish in bed.
All he cares about is his routine, his studies, his work, and
his friends.
He stops asking you for your opinion on where you both
go out on dates.
He doesn't acknowledge his self-centered behavior even
after you have pointed it out to him.
6) He Gets Irritated When You Start a Mushy
Conversation
Mushy conversations and cute names are a playful part of a
couple's love life. These things slowly taper off as the puppy-
love effect wears off, but they still remain deep-rooted in
everyday behavior.
Your guy's annoyance may be justified if you overdo it by calling
him cute names all day long. But an overall aversion to anything
lovey-dovey can be a sign that he is no longer invested in the
relationship.
7) Your Boyfriend Has Stopped Saying "I Love You"
A guy and a girl usually start saying "I love you" to each other
once they move past the first phase of dating. If your
relationship developed into the "I love you" stage a long time
ago, there is no reason why your boyfriend should suddenly feel
averse to saying these three beautiful words to you. As cheesy
as it sounds, if he stops saying them, it is a strong sign that that
he isn't as into you as he was before.
8) He Doesn't Bother to Comfort You, Even When You
Are Sad
If he doesn't comfort you when you're feeling blue, he's not
reacting as a boyfriend should.
A man who is in love will always recognize when his loved one
is sad or in distress, and will do whatever it takes to bring a
smile back to her face. This is true regardless of how much a
couple fights or argues. No guy can call himself a boyfriend if he
does nothing when he knows that something is bothering his
girl.
Hugging a girl when she looks sad and rubbing her shoulders
when she is down should be a boyfriend's instincts. If your guy
doesn't do any of that and turns a blind eye even when you are
feeling blue, it can be a sign that he doesn't love you with the
same intensity that he did before.
9) Your Boyfriend Digs up Regrettable Incidents from
Your Past
Everyone knows how painful it feels when someone reminds
you of memories that have scarred you emotional and
psychologically. It takes a person many years to forget
someone, let go of bitter memories, and move on from the
regret of doing stupid things.
Your boyfriend has no reason to dig up painful memories from
your past and fling them at you when you have an argument.
This is one boundary that partners must not cross, because it
can be very damaging to someone's confidence.
If your guy has recently started slinging your past regrets at you
with a hurtful intent, his feelings for you may have already
bottomed out.
10) He Doesn't Flirt with You Any More
Flirting speaks volumes about the chemistry a couple shares.
No matter how long you have been in the same relationship,
your boyfriend should typically be flirting with you by:
Giving you compliments when you wear something new
Picking random moments to tell you how beautiful you
are
Staring at you and looking into your eyes when you are
both alone
Make you feel sexy by telling you how attractive you are
Of course, your guy isn't expected to be Prince Charming all the
time. But he should be taking the initiative to start such
romantic conversations every now and then.
11) The Spark of Physical Intimacy Fizzles Out in
Your Relationship
Snuggling and physical contact is normal in a relationship.
If you find yourselves maintaining your distance from one
another, that's a sign something is wrong.
When a guy starts falling out of love, it will reflect in his hugs,
kisses, and cuddles. The chemistry of physical intimacy that you
share with your guy says a lot about your relationship. Ask
yourself these questions if you think that your boyfriend doesn't
love you anymore:
Do you still share those long hugs that you used to when
you started dating him?
Does your boyfriend cuddle you when you are all by
yourselves?
Thinking about these things will immediately give you a fair idea
of whether your boyfriend is still totally into you or has gotten
bored in the relationship. Another sign of a lack of emotional
connect is when your sex life is either non-existent or it has
gotten to the point that it feels mundane.
12) He Gets Angry and Loses His Cool without Any
Reason
People lose their tempers for any number of reasons, including
doing poorly at school, having rough times at work, feeling
bullied, or going through family problems.
If your boyfriend seems to be edgy all the time and loses his
temper at non-issues, try to find out the reason for his anger. If
you can't seem to pin-point any specific causes, his random
flare-ups could simply mean that he is irritated by you and the
relationship.
13) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Getting Annoyed
by Some of Your Habits
Has your boyfriend recently started pointing out little stuff in
your everyday behavior, claiming that you annoy him endlessly?
Ask yourself these questions if he suddenly feels that some of
your habits are driving him crazy.
Did you have these habits before you met him?
Had any of those habits created problems in the
relationship before?
Make a mental note of whether you have had those habits since
the beginning of your relationship. If you did, then why is your
boyfriend suddenly becoming averse to them? Ask the same
question to him. If he doesn't have an answer for you, the real
answer probably lies in his heart, which doesn't beat for you
anymore.
......thanks for your Time...
Visit my Blogspot@
www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com
Email@ buildingagoodrelationship@gmail.com
CEO, Tom General
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