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THE LANGUAGES OF LOVE

Like Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus,
The Five Love Languages is an immensely popular book on understanding your partner and building a good relationship.
The premise is that individuals prefer to receive love in different ways. You need to learn how your partner best feels loved, and help your partner understand you do. According to author Gary Chapman the five languages are:

(1). Words of affirmation => Tell them you love them,

(2). Acts of service => Do the dishes without being asked,

(3). Receiving gifts => come home with flowers for no reason,

(4). Quality time => Go on a picnic,

(5). Physical touch => Hold hands when youā€™re watching television.

    A person often strongly prefers one ā€œlanguageā€ above the others.
Figuring it out is easy ā€“ explain the premise of the theory and just ask which your significant other prefers. Then remember to act on it.
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