BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP {BGR}

The gap between our experience and our expectation is our unhappiness. Experience is what’s happening to us.  Expectation is what we’d like to happen to us.  How many people do you know who live in a state of almost constant disappointment over their life situation?  They are simply comparing what they experience to what the expect, and leaving a huge gap between the two. There is a freedom away from this type of mind if we want to find it.  It takes a different mind set.  It will help if we can see the pain this behavior creates. Which can we control, experience or expectation?  Movies and TV often imply that we can control the world, or should be able to.  Science implies that control or prediction should be our greatest goal. An awake person realizes that we can control, or at least deal with the expectation part of this better than the experience part of this.  That realization is huge. ........ Thanks for your time Visit my blogspot @ www.building-a-goodrelationship.blog

Like Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus, The Five Love Languages is an immensely popular book on understanding your partner and building a good relationship. The premise is that individuals prefer to receive love in different ways. You need to learn how your partner best feels loved, and help your partner understand you do. According to author Gary Chapman the five languages are: (1). Words of affirmation => Tell them you love them, (2). Acts of service => Do the dishes without being asked, (3). Receiving gifts => come home with flowers for no reason, (4). Quality time => Go on a picnic, (5). Physical touch => Hold hands when you’re watching television.     A person often strongly prefers one “language” above the others. Figuring it out is easy – explain the premise of the theory and just ask which your significant other prefers. Then remember to act on it. .....Thanks for your time Visit my blogspot @ www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com Email

LONELINESS Loneliness is a temporary feeling. It’s what you feel when your roommate leaves you alone in the apartment for a week on her family vacation. It’s what you feel when the boy you’ve been sharing a bed with for the past three months unexpectedly changes his mind and begins to sleep in someone else’s. It’s what you feel when you pass that couple on the sidewalk holding hands and you hold a cup of coffee in yours. Loneliness comes in waves. One moment you feel fine, and the solitude brings you peace. The next moment the quiet hurts your ears, and you can’t do anything about it. The weird thing about loneliness is that you don’t necessarily have to  be  alone to feel  alone. Someone could be sitting right next to you, talking to you, looking at you, saying things you normally would love to hear, but you still feel like no one is there. EMPTINESS Emptiness is completely different. Emptiness is what remains when loneliness recedes. Emptiness stays. Emptiness does not come and

1. You should never say sorry for loving someone 2. You never say sorry for saying No 3. U should never say sorry for being on your own 4. You never say sorry for taking up your priority 5. You should never say sorry for standing your ground 6. You should never say sorry for what you don't know 7. You should never say sorry for high expectations 8. You should never say sorry for someone else problem 9. You should never say sorry for spending excessively on yourself 10. You should never say sorry for delay in response to conversation 11. You should never say sorry for ending a bad Relationship 12. You should never say sorry for telling the Truth.... ....... thanks for your time... Visit my blogspot @ www.building-a-goodrelationship.blogspot.com Email :Buildingagoodrelationship@gmail.com Tom General CEO  5EE66EFF

i want to share with you something i know very much that the devil doesn't want you to know and even if you know it, he will stop at nothing to make sure you are not conscious of it. But before i start, let me advise you. If you know that you are not going to read every word of this write-up through to the end, just skip to the next item on your profile (Probably one of the kinds of stuff the devil wants to keep feeding you mind with to blind you from the truth). Do yourself a favour by sparing the next 15 minutes to read this through You remember the story how it all started when God created man in His imagery so that man can be the God of the is world as He is in Heaven. He gave man a precious gift (Dominion). But man was careless with the gift and Satan stole it from man. He (Satan) guarded it so jealously that even the Bible recognises him as the god of this world. Anyway, i know you are familiar with that story but stick with me. I'm heading somewhere. You also remembe

Relationships that work are the ones that are worked on. If you are wondering where to begin, here are some areas that can always help you out.  Communication.  Being able to share the emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual  aspects of your life, without feeling judged or devalued, is what good communication is all about. Neither you nor your partner is a mind reader, so you need to let each other know what you’re thinking and feeling. Remember that communication is the most important part of your relationship. Acknowledgment.  From simply saying thank you to expressing your appreciation on a deeper level, you need to let each other know that you are grateful  for one another’s actions and supportive of each other’s efforts. Look for every opportunity to show your partner that you are receiving your love ’s positive energy and responding appropriately.  Interdependence.  Being truly interdependent means being involved with each other in a supportive manner without compromisi

Alright Ladies, I’m here to save you a bunch of time and heartache if you’re not already married, and if you are married and your man doesn’t possess the qualities you’ll read about below, then it might be time to whip that man of yours into shape. This is a sequel to my husband’s article that he wrote entitled “ 5 Ways You Know You’ve Found The Right Woman “, and he promised me a new dress if I got more readers than he had on his article. So if  you happen to share this article, you’ll be doing me a huge favor. So here are my 5 ways to know you’ve found the “right man”! 1. He Respects and Admires TRUE Womanhood This is extreeemly important because we as women are already naturally insecure. We yearn for the admiration and approval of our husbands, whether we like to admit it or not. If we‘re being honest ladies…we’re especially sensitive and insecure about our  looks. How can we not when the world does everything in its power to teach us women (and our men) from birth it seem

THIS is a one size fits all guide to building the right kind of relationship. How many of us have learned how to build loving  relationships ? Where did we learn? At home? At school? There is an art and science to building strong relationships. These are indispensable tips, written with  romantic relationships in mind, but with a little modification you can apply them to your friendships,  family , and even work relationships . 1. Create a safe environment where you can trust and share openly without fear.  Don't interrupt, even if you need to put your hand over your mouth to stop yourself. Learn to fight fairly. No name calling. Don't make threats. Apologize when you know you should. If you're too angry to really listen, stop! Go into another room, take space for yourself, breathe, and calm down. Remember: your partner is not the enemy. 2. Separate the facts from the feelings. What beliefs and  feelings get triggered in you during conflicts? Ask yourself